Praying for Wisdom
- Ron and Star Nelson

- Jan 12
- 2 min read
James 1:5 (NIV) “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”
Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV) “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”
Father God,
We acknowledge today that we need You. We do not want to rely on our own understanding, emotions, or instincts alone. We invite Your wisdom into every decision, every conversation, and every step we take. Teach us to see as You see and to move as You lead. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

A ministry leader once faced a tense conflict between two trusted team members. Both were passionate. Both felt misunderstood. The leader felt pressure to respond immediately and firmly.
Emotion wanted to react. Pride wanted to defend position. Urgency wanted to decide quickly.
But instead, the leader paused.
Before sending any message, before calling any meeting, before choosing a side, the leader whispered a simple prayer:
“Lord, I need Your wisdom.”
That prayer changed everything.
The leader waited. Listened. Asked questions instead of making assumptions. Chose words carefully. Allowed space for hearts to soften. And what could have become a deep division instead became a moment of healing, understanding, and restored unity.
Haste would have fractured the team.
Wisdom preserved the mission.
Wisdom is not simply knowledge. It is not intelligence, experience, or education alone.
Wisdom is God’s perspective applied to daily decisions.
Every day we make choices—some small, some life-altering. We decide how to speak, how to respond, what to pursue, what to release, what to confront, and what to wait on. Without wisdom, even good intentions can produce harmful results.
James reminds us that wisdom is not something we earn—it is something we ask for. And God does not give it reluctantly. He gives it generously, freely, and without criticism.
Wisdom teaches us when to speak and when to remain silent. When to act and when to wait. When to correct and when to cover. When to hold firm and when to surrender.
Wisdom protects relationships. Wisdom preserves unity. Wisdom guards our witness. Wisdom aligns us with God’s heart.
When we pray for wisdom, we are asking God to let us see through His eyes before we move with our hands.
Today, ask yourself:
• Where do I need God’s wisdom right now?
• Am I reacting or responding?
• Am I leaning on understanding or on the Lord?
• Have I invited God into this decision, or assumed I already know what to do?
Before responding to any difficult situation today—pause and pray for wisdom first.
Lord, Thank You for the promise that when I ask for wisdom, You give it generously. Help me walk in discernment, humility, and obedience today. Guard my heart, guide my words, and direct my steps. May my choices reflect Your will and bring You glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.



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